Romantic Relationships: a Candid Panel Discussion

Edie Adams and Ernie Kovacs
Edie Adams and Ernie Kovacs

Thursday, February 11th at 7 p.m.

Love is in the air at your Library!  Three professionals share honestly and openly how to create and maintain a successful romantic relationship. Learn how to effectively brand yourself from Alix Purcell, Marketing Communications Consultant at The Life Solution Center of Darien. Hear about how technology has changed the way we search for a partner and stay connected with our loved ones, from Mallory Arents, Head of Adult Programming at Darien Library. Learn how to figure out whether or not someone you've met could be a good candidate (or not) for a relationship, from Maud Purcell, MSW, LCSW, CEAP and the Founder and Executive Director of The Life Solution Center of Darien. 

Attendees will have the opportunity to ask questions that will assist in romantic endeavors. What works? How do you prepare? How do you “keep the music playing?”

Tax Preparation and Assistance

Photo by agrilifetoday / CC BY
Photo by agrilifetoday / CC BY

Friday, Walk-in and Appointments available 9 a.m. to 3:30 p.m.
Saturday, 
Walk-in and Appointments available 9 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.
February 5th through April 16th. No Tax Prep Saturday, February 20th.

IRS-Certified Trained AARP volunteer tax aides are available to local residents of all ages and incomes at no charge. The nation’s largest, free, volunteer-run tax assistance and preparation service is available to all individual filers regardless of income or age.  Started in 1968 and, since 1980, this service has operated under a cooperative agreement with the Internal Revenue Service (IRS).

If married, both husband and wife should be present.  Certain forms and personal and financial documents are required.  Taxpayers must bring:

Identity Documentation
- Government Issued Photo ID (such as a driver's license or passport).
- Social Security or ITIN numbers for all taxpayers and dependents.
- Bank account/routing numbers (blank check preferable), if expecting a refund.

All 2015 income report forms received
- SSA1099 if you were paid Social Security benefits.
- W-2(s) from your employer(s).
- W-2G from gambling winnings.
- 1099G from unemployment compensation payments.
- 1099s: Bank interest, stock dividends, retirement distributions, brokers.

Other Important Documents
- Receipts for deductible expenses including real estate and vehicle taxes paid.
- Verification of the original purchase price of sold assets (home, stocks, etc.).
- Receipts/canceled checks if itemizing deductions (e.g., charity contributions).
- Proof of Health Insurance (Form 1095-A from Health Insurance Marketplace or private plan identification).

Copy of last year’s Federal and State tax return(s), if possible.

For more information or to make an appointment, please call 203-669-5236

Friday Night Feature - 'Grandma'

Ladies
Ladies

Friday, February 12th at 6:30 p.m. and 8:30 p.m. - Grandma (2015) Starring Lily Tomlin, Julia Garner, Marcia Gay Harden, Judy Greer, Laverne Cox, Elizabeth Pena, Nat Wolff, Sam Elliott ; Rated R; 79 minutes; Presented with captions for the hearing impaired.

Lily Tomlin stars as Elle who has just gotten through breaking up with her girlfriend when Elle's granddaughter Sage unexpectedly shows up needing $600 bucks before sundown. Temporarily broke, Grandma Elle and Sage spend the day trying to get their hands on the cash as their unannounced visits to old friends and flames end up rattling skeletons and digging up secrets.

For more information, please watch the film's trailer.  Check out what else we're screening.

Additional parking for evening and weekend Library programs on Thorndal Circle (behind Nielsen's).

One-Day Robot Camp

Photo by marcogomes | CC BY 2.0
Photo by marcogomes | CC BY 2.0

Saturday, February 13th from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.

This event is full. To register for the waitlist, please email marents@darienlibrary.org.

A fun-filled day for anyone looking to try their hands at robotics. At the conclusion of this event, participants will leave with a working autonomous robot that they built and programmed that day. Learn soldering, DC motor theory, and Arduino programming. No coding experience necessary.

This class is limited to Darien residents, those employed full-time in Darien, or Friends of the Darien Library who contribute annually at the $300 level.

Senior Moments: Gelatin Printmaking

Photo by cazatoma | CC BY-NC-ND 2.0
Photo by cazatoma | CC BY-NC-ND 2.0

Tuesday, February 16th at 3 p.m.

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Senior Moments, a monthly coffee and conversation program designed specifically for seniors will meet in the Conference Room.

Interested in printmaking and design? Try a unique method to create original, funky greeting cards. Using sheets of gelatin, intrepid printmakers will get to experiment with this unique medium and design art prints.

Business Book Group: 'Making Conflict Work'

Read it
Read it

Tuesday, February 16th at 6 p.m.

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Join us for the next meeting of our Business Book Group as we discuss Robert Ferguson and Peter T. Coleman's Making Conflict WorkThe group is invited to an informal discussion of the book from 6 to 6:45 p.m. followed by networking over wine, beer, and light refreshments.

About Making Conflict Work: Harnessing the Power of Disagreement

Conflicts at work are as inevitable as they are frustrating. In Making Conflict Work, Peter Coleman and Robert Ferguson’s leading experts in the field of conflict resolution address the key role of power in workplace tension. Whether you’re butting heads with your boss or addressing a direct report’s complaint, your relative position of power affects how you approach conflict.

Coleman and Ferguson explain how power dynamics function, with step-by-step guidance to determining your standing in a conflict and identifying and applying the strategies that will lead to the best resolution. Drawing on the authors’ years of research and consulting experience, the book gives readers effective strategies for negotiating disputes at all levels of an organization.

We have copies of the book available for patrons to borrow, but prior reading of the books is not necessary to attend the discussion.

Business Book Group is sponsored by the Darien Rowayton Bank.

Books by the Fire

Share what you love!
Share what you love!

Wednesday, February 17th at 11 a.m.

Books by the Fire is the Anti-Book Group. Instead, we're a Reading Group: you pick what you want to read, watch, or listen to. Join this long-running group and be the first in the know about what's new and hot during this informal conversation. Current attendees are on the hunt for industry secrets for brand new titles as well as obsure, you may have missed them titles. We only ask that you share what you're reading and loving too!

Join us every Wednesday, through May, by the First Floor Fireplace.

Black History Film Fest- 'Ray'

Enjoy
Enjoy

Wednesday, February 17th at 1:30 p.m. -  Ray (2003) Starring Jamie Foxx, Kerry Washington, Regina King, Clifton Powell, Harry Lennix, Bokeem Woodbine; Rated PG-13; 152 minutes. Presented with captions for the hearing impaired.

This biopic profiles the life of legendary musician Ray Charles. Despite humble beginnings and the loss of his eyesight due to glaucoma at the age of six, Charles, depicted by Jamie Foxx, would nonetheless become an icon in both the music industry and the civil rights era. While the film delves into his problems with drugs and women, the bulk of the story details his career; among the highlights of that career are 12 Grammy awards and 11 R&B chart-toppers, such as "Unchain My Heart," "Hit the Road, Jack," "Georgia," "Doin' the Mess Around," and "Hallelujah I Just Love Her So."

For more information, please watch the film's trailer.  Check out what else we're screening.

Additional parking for evening and weekend Library programs on Thorndal Circle (behind Nielsen's).

Fireside Knitting

Knit something cozy while enjoying the warmth of the fire.
Knit something cozy while enjoying the warmth of the fire.

Thursday, February 18th at 2 p.m.

Calling all fiber artists! Whether you're a casual knitter, an expert crocheter, or dabble in loom weaving, join us as we create and chat. Bring your projects, get tips, and learn from one another. All skill levels welcome.

This group meets Thursdays in January and February.

Forever Young Book Group: 'Dumplin'

Love it.
Love it.

Thursday, February 18th at 6:30 p.m., at The Goose, 972 Post Road

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Introducing Forever Young, a book group for fans of young adult (YA) fiction who are a little less Y and a lot more A. Join us as we discuss Julie Murphy's Dumplin'.

About Dumplin'

Sixteen-year-old Willowdean wants to prove to everyone in her small Texas town that she is more than just a fat girl, so, while grappling with her feelings for a co-worker who is clearly attracted to her, Will and some other misfits prepare to compete in the beauty pageant her mother runs.